Love and Sex

 

#ThisIsLuv:Out and Loved

When I came out to my mother, she was dropping me off at the airport to go visit my first real girlfriend, who lived in Brooklyn. I had lied and ... more
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Going Down?

Its 9am and Im having a conversation with a friend about sex (per usual), and we approach the topic of oral sex. Explicit details about our best encounters in receiving ... more
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#ThisIsLuv:Loved, No Matter What

When I speak at universities about the intersections of race, queerness, class and gender, theres always at least one young queer person of color who asks, When did you know ... more
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#ThisIsLuv:Black Families+LGBT People= Love

Mr. Davis, I have to leave my moms home," theold self-identified stud lesbian told me. When I asked why, she said, My mother is Black and from the Caribbean and ... more
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Valentines Day for Him

Im a soldier of love, and I believe in its celebration every single day, but Im seriously thinking of breaking up with Valentines Day. In the age of social media, ... more
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4 Fun Fetishes to Play With in the Bedroom

Sexual arousal is pretty straightforward. When erogenous zones are physically stimulated or when the mind is stimulated with sexual words or images, the body prepares for sex. In some cases ... more
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Gift Yourself These Top 5 Erotic Toys

Christmas Eve gift shopping? Happens to the best of us. If the holiday season crept up on you this year, make a mad dash to find the perfect gift for ... more
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Angels Erotic Solutions Builds Sexual Empire [INTERVIEW]

The world is filled with many teachers, each with their own style of bringing information to the masses. And when it comes to the art of sexual expression, youll never ... more
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Miss Jessie’s Girls Talk Daddy Love [VIDEO]

Stories of absent fathers have become commonplace in the narrative of the Black community. While theres a tendency to avoid consistent conversations about the real reasons why so many men ... more
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6 Ways to Get Playful With Tantric Sex

Most Westerners view lovemaking as a form of recreation and a way to preserve life. But imagine if sex could be used to deepen the bonds between couples and bring ... more
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Can Rocky Road Relationships Last?

I received an email from a longtime reader (Ill call her Shay) the other day, who wanted advice on whether she should continue to invest in a relationship that had ... more
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Top 5 Male Sex Fantasies (and How to Make Them Come True!)

Sexual fantasies. Everyone has them and they unconsciously fuel a lot of our sex lives. These fleeting dreams of sexual encounters almost always feature a sexual act that doesnt manifest ... more
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